I was surprised to see that what I learned on my own is matching what other people are already doing.
My decision cycle: Observe-Think-Do (OTD)
My secret to success: First of all there is no such word as Failure. If you think so, apply any of this or all or combination to achieve peace.
PRAYER (Prayer/Singing/Listening/Reading/Writing, Fasting)
FORGIVENESS (Forgive/Pray for other person)
LOVE (Mother Theresa: If we judge the people, we dont have time to love. Another: Love the sinner, not the sin)